"Pity I have a policy of not sleeping with anyone who knows my name," Kai says, because he has a tiny bit of diplomatic sense, and telling their visitor that he won't sleep with the elf does seem more on the excessively rude side of things. It would also sound more like a challenge, he thinks. It also reminds Kai he needs to ignore the loud clamor of his body, the ache to breathe in the smell of the unisdhe.

"Your idea of danger a visit to the uncivilized part of town?" By that Kai means the humans, but he also means himself. He's making fun of the elfin sense of superiority while also putting himself on the other side of it.